Valentine’s, just like any other day, it has passed. It is usually a good time to know where you stand in this dating world. Are you single, taken for granted or taken for real? It is as simple as, did your person make any effort to see you or even send you a gift,a call or a message? Actions always speak louder than words. No complains,no excuses.

Now that you know where you stand, it is easier to plan and move on. Let this year work, in matters love and relationships. A wise man once said that it is not who you attract it is who you give your attention to. And so, if you don’t like who you attract, it is a high time you changed your frequency. Move different, think different attract different. Here is the wise man’s Link. I would suggest you listen.

I cannot give more insight to this topic, I’m no connoisseur on love matters. But, a perfect reminder on the laws and regulations in the 254. That it doesn’t matter how long you date or even cohabit with your lover, legally you are not married. So do right by your partner, let them go if you have no intentions of marrying them.

To my ladies, the same wise man also says that you have a lot more lose than your male partner. You are the one doing the child bearing which is a matter of life and death. Once you leave your parents home you are not expected to ever be back. And so, choosing a mate or rather a life partner should be a cautious and very intentional decision.

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