Straight to the point on some of the things I know for sure. For the 25 and many more years,that I have on this planet I have some things I know for sure ,bound to change as I grow of course.This is also a continuation on a note I did To my younger self….Just have a feel then let’s dig into this.

8.Hydrate! You already know how essential this is. Infact get your water now as we continue.

9.No one like your mum!

10.The word No is a complete sentence. Use it more often without fear.

11. I know for sure that it’s is important to learn how to cook meals from scratch missy.

12.I know and understand that loosing friends is part of life. Make new, better and quality friends. This is where am at.

13.Books can be your best friends too. My latest read was The forty rules of love And my oh my it has changed my life . I found my “Bestie”

14. Find a safe space for your creativity,space that brings you inner peace. For me It’s here and you are welcome- https://youngmissy.art.blog/

15. Playing dress up and traveling is therapeutic,atleast for me, I know this to be true.

16.Learn to be alone but not lonely.Your happiness is totally on you.

17.Self care is essential .These are some of my tips on Self care matters..

18. Childhood traumas are real. Seek healing first.Therapy is not something you should shy off.Talk to someone. Am here if you need that someone.

19.Making your own money this is essential young Missy. Save and invest. I am still learning and trying but this I know for sure.

20.Do not talk back when angry. It will cost you more than intended.

21. The past is an interpretation,the future is an illusion. Life for me is NOW. The present moment is all there is and all there will be.

22. African princess or African popster? Nandy or Nadia? You choose.

23. Learn how to listen and trust your gut. For the young Missy trust your intuition.Its a gift.

24.You are exactly where you are meant to be. Believe that. Lest I forget,You are deserving of pleasure. Here is what I mean on Pleasure

25. I will finish this with one of the rules . “A life without love is of no account. Don’t ask yourself what kind of love you should seek, spiritual or material,Devine or mundane….Love has no labels,no definitions. It is what it is,pure and simple.”